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Michael 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

I really love this site but there are clearly alot of uptight people that do as well.

Hiring Strippers doesn’t have to be a trashy thing. Your friends should hand pick the “right’ ladies to entertain you on such a night along with hand picking other activites you would enjoy as well.

Oh my poor castrated masses, with cries of “RESPECT”. No one said disrespect was apart of having strippers at a party, unless that is how you conduct yourself in the presence of an exotic dancer or if your bride to be would disapprove of course.

Perhaps some of you don’t have the self control to have such a party and that’s fine, but don’t call your fellow man a cavemen because he chooses to enjoy himself in a non-prudish manner. Puritans, please exit the 16th century.

For me a casual evening( no jeans, no sneakers) at a nice catered hall with football on multiple screens,a fine collection of cigars, rare bottles of cognac and scotch, only my closest friends and family (hers and mine), good looking strippers, and lots of toast all night would be great. My woman would not only approve she would encourage me to have a good time and not feel the slightest bit disrespected in the process. I think we could even merge our bachelor/bachelorette parties, that would be fun too. ... See all content Hide content

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George M 4 months ago on Wordpress

This post was great! My friend is getting married in a month or so and we planned a similar party for him the week before the wedding. We’ll be paintballing all day then getting cleaned up for a nice dinner at the local brew pub. Hoorah for an end to the classless caveman party!

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anna namous 6 months ago on Wordpress

One of my good friends is getting married this Saturday and none of his groomsmen planned a bachelor party for him…his fiancee, also my friend, suggested that I take him out. Seeing as how I am a female I wasn’t sure he would be interested, and I didn’t even know what to do because the first thoughts I get when I think of a bachelor party are strippers. I would partake if need be but that isn’t something he is into. I discussed it with him, and he said he would love for me to plan it.

I wanted to do something classy and manly of course so I went out and bought some nice cigars for the group. We are going to have dinner at a local steak house and then to a local piano bar to sit around with our cigars and pipes and drink some good scotch… I might even bust out a fake mustache to fit in a little more…I think the boys will be impressed a woman planned this. ... See all content Hide content

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justin 8 months ago on Wordpress

I dont even know to begin with you guys.You are walking a groom down the plank and all you can think of is paintball and camping?Man,if you guys made me do that stuff at my “Party”,KEYWORD “PARTY”,i would never speak to any of you again.Its not about bonding,You already know each other.Its not about being classy,thats for the wedding.It truely is a celebration that should make the groom feel like “THE MAN!” thats your job as best man.Not to insure you bore him with the same things you can do any old weekend.You have one time to do things that he wont be able to do anymore without hearing from a lawyer the next day and losing half his stuff! Do the right thing and get him drunk,take no pictures,and let lots of hot girls have their way with him.if you tell your girlfriends what happened,you should have went to the brides party instead.Dont act like any guy reading this doesnt agree,its the truth,and if you cant admit it,your old lady must be reading this with you. Best of luck!!! ... See all content Hide content

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Bob 12 months ago on Wordpress

Sounds kinda wussy to me, way too politically correct.

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Tim 1 year ago on Wordpress

I’m thinking paintball with strippers is the happy medium here.

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Dave 1 year ago on Wordpress

I planned a party for one of my good friends a couple years back. The plan was paintball, dinner and a Black Label Society concert. Paintballing was awsome, but you have to remember that activities are tiring! Most of the guys were dead tired after be got back in the early afternoon. Dinner was great and the the BLS show was the icing on the cake, mostly because my buddy got called up on stage and was congratulated by Zakk and the guys. And was of course ribbed to DEATH. We hung out after the show and jammed at the bar. That was easily one of the most memorable moments Ive had in my lifetime. The more effort you put into doing something right, the better it always is. Be creative. I think the camping thing is a little lame, but Im not a camper and if it floats your boat than party on dude! Its your party, I wont judge… Harshly

That’s what having a bachelor party is all about. Make it something to remember. My poor best man is going to have to think hard as Ive spent more than my fair share of time in strip clubs and going to one wont be all that memorable for me. For mine I have no idea what I want. Had we gone boobie watching we would have missed out on a seriously memorable night.

Also make sure you find out who is coming and how this sucker is financed. The only person who shouldnt be paying for anything is the groom. Everyone else better be ponying up! And make sure if you organize you get paid ahead of time so its not coming out of your pocket. Overcharge people a little so there is money for incidentals that come up because they always do. As the best man and party organizer its unfortunatly your job to make sure party goes smoothly and everyone has a great time. That means easy on the booze there big guy. That was a problem I ran into. Money. Everything sounds great and awsome until guys realize they have to pony up. I had a bunch of commits to the paintball and dinner part, (the concert was reserved for a select few very good friends and hey not everyone is into metal.) Only to have people back out of the paintball and only want to come to dinner. Ironically the more people you have come, the cheaper per person it can be for activities and transportation. But you get a bigger bill overall. We had a huge H1 limo(Groom is a car guy) and it was the same price if it was 1 of us or 20. Maybe friends of the groom were just cheap bastards but I never heard a bunch of guys commit to something only to start backing out after all plans had been made when it came time to pay the bill. Always call for group rates and party rates. Lots of places are doing bachelor/ette party packs now. So call. It can only save you money.

And dont be that drunk guy. Drunk guy at dinner paid for EVERYTHING. I think the bill was 1500 before tip. And if you thought we paid him back… Well, he drank it all himself and he insisted numerous times on us letting him pay… I mean NUMEROUS times he insisted. Good story to that too. He doesnt remember how he got into his apartment. He remembers laying down on the street in front of his building, but he woke up in his bed. How he got there he doesnt know. I guessed the doorman. ... See all content Hide content

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Steven Copley 1 year, 1 month ago on Wordpress

Excellent article.

Luckily my brother and I had the good sense to coordinate each others “parties” and they were extremely small, personal and memorable. As I recall, a few of his closest friends joined us for the night of fun and we spent time reflecting on life, enjoying the company and got a coffee at Starbucks to cap the evening off.

My brother did the same for me , with much shorter notice, when I got married. Small, intimate, memorable time with friends.

Thanks for the guide, perhaps some men will consider this when planning their friends in the future. ... See all content Hide content

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Morgan hanson 1 year, 1 month ago on Wordpress

We had a party for my buddy. We took everybody to the target range and fired guns all day. Manly.

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