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I'm more familiar with a different just-so story intended to explain the same alleged generalization: infants' phonetic abilities are initially limited, and this creates pressure to develop variants of words for caregivers (and other things infants are likely to want to name) that suit their preferences.

I don't know of any non-anecdotal studies of the generalization, much less of the relative strength of parental egoism and infant incapacity in ...

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q 3 months ago on Wordpress

@Hellen Parker:

I think it has more to do with the fact that the "wai" in all those words is 外, meaning "outside" or "outer" - that is to say, the secondary relatives on the "outside" of the patriarchal family tree. This may tie into your statement that babies are more often surrounded by relatives from their father's family (not that I have personal knowledge of any such tendency) simply
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Nathan Myers 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Hawaiian pidgin (and, I assume, whatever parent language loaned it) has "mimi" meaning the same as American slang "cooch", the vulva. It seems odd that American English avoids that precisely descriptive word in favor of the anatomically inaccurate "vagina", the which is not really ever visible to paparazzi.

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‘Mama’ and ‘Papa’ « Ken and Dot’s Allsorts 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

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woundedgenius 3 months, 1 week ago on Twitter

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marie-lucie 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

what's the correct term for "coochicoo"?

Baby talk, or "motherese".

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Ariun 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

>Nathan Myers said, Indonesian has "susu" for both breast and milk.

Khalkh Mongolian has "suu" for milk, "me me" for breast in coochicoo(when adults talk to kids).

Father is "aav", mother "eej". No Ms or Ps there! Unlike Mandarin Chinese, "baba" actually means "dirty" in Khalkh Mongolian coochicoo. Perhaps it's from the actual word "bohir".

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John Cowan 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

My 16-month-old grandson Dorian, who lives at my house, has not yet said anything that I would call a word using fairly strict criteria — he babbles quite a bit, and still coos a lot too (to say nothing of squeals and other clearly non-linguistic ape-like noises), but he has no semantics for any of it. However, the phones in the babbles are quite complex and don't correspond to anything much ... See all content

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vp 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

@Jonathan:

I've always wondered whether *ph2ter for "father" could have been a zero-grade form of *peh2 "protect", thus meaning something like "protector". I admit I have no expertise to judge whether this little hypothesis could be correct :)

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vp 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

@marie lucie

I have no idea whether my daughter meant anything by her voiced velar fricative. Her first word that had a clear (to us) referent was [kɐːkɯ] — "cookie". By this time she was already saying things like "mama" and "dada", but seemingly at random.

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kranky 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

I don't want to start a new thread (or branch) after so many posts, but no one seems to have noted that, in US English, at least, "mother" has been thoroughly replace by "mom," not just as an address form but referentially. The US world is now filled with "moms" of all kinds and "mothers" seem to have disappeared. Same with "dad" and "father."

This has little or nothing to do with the child
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marie-lucie 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Jonathan,

You never know what people are going to take seriously, or what crazy explanations some people might invent! I am not a PIE specialist, so I can't comment on why the PIE word is reconstructed without a vowel, something which seems to need attention, but there might be other explanations for the divergence between languages as opposed to the unanimity with the 'mother' vowel.

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Bloix 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

In Hebrew, mama/mommy is "eema," mother is "ehm." Papa/daddy is "abba," father is "ahv."

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Jonathan 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

@marie-lucie

The question is: why does the PIE 'father' root have no vowel at all? It's not 'papa' or 'pa', it's 'p'! It's strange because the 'mother' root does have a vowel, which is cross-linguistically expected. There is no actual answer to this question, so I made a humorous attempt at one. I thought the humor was obvious, but I guess I was wrong.

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marie-lucie 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Is it possible that PIE babies used the universally endearing nursery word 'ma!' for their mothers, but for their fathers the somewhat pejorative and possibly ptyalistic 'p!'?

That seems to lay a lot of responsibility on the innocent shoulders of PIE babies and their hundreds of millions of descendants. "Ma" is far from universal for 'mother' as mentioned in several comments, and in some languages
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Jonathan 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

It may be worth mentioning that the reconstructed forms for PIE 'mother' and 'father' are not just different with respect to the initial consonants. The 'mother' word was *mV-H2te:r, that is, m + short vowel that's not /o/ + the kinship derivative suffix *-H2te:r (*H2 represents the so-called 'second laryngeal', some kind of dorsal fricative). I've seen the root vowel represented as /e/ or /a/; we ... See all content

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Timm! 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

My two cents:

We actually discussed this in a linguistics class I took a few years ago. According to the prof, we're pretty certain that the easiest sound pattern for people to make is consonant-vowel-consonant-vowel (CVCV). We can surmise this because babies the world over babble in pretty rigid CVCV patterns and many "kiddie terms" for various things adhere more tightly to this pattern a
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marie-lucie 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

p.s. By "baby talk" here I mean the way small children talk, not the way adults talk to children.

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marie-lucie 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

what tends to happen in languages that lack one or another of these relevant sounds

Sometimes it is not that speakers are incapable of producing the relevant sounds, but that they associate them with baby talk, not with adult speech. As an example, it is well-known that French does not have the th sounds and that adult French speakers replace them with s, z (in France) or t, d (in Canada)
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2009-10-30 Spike activity | Yuvablog 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

[…] Log discusses the hypothesis that words for mother and father (e.g. mama and papa) are so similar across languages because it's the first sounds children make and parents just assume their […]

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Kenny Easwaran 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Kellen Parker - that goes along with the data Trask mentions about mama/papa forms being common for all sorts of older relatives but not for younger relatives. If, in China, babies generally don't spend much time around maternal relatives until they're done babbling then babble-type words for those relatives won't replace existing words the way they will for paternal relatives.

Hi Christian!
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marie-lucie 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

For what it's worth, the first consonant sound my baby made was a voiced velar fricative.

Was she saying things like "gaga" or "googoo", and nothing else, or was it in response to something specific? Just because a baby produces what appears to be an identifiable sound or syllable does not mean that the baby means something by it. At 3 or 4 weeks of age my daughter said "la" when whe was crying
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Kent Scheidegger 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

The Thai word for father is "paw," just like Hoss called Ben. Mother is "ma" but the vowel is like the "a" in cat.

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Shannon 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

For another language point, in the Mayan K'iche' language, mother is naan and father is taat.

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ChWatson 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

According to a Russian etymological dictionary, отец is a "common word of children's language" that replaced the IE word very early. It might be related to the word atta, that means "father" in Hettite, Gothic, Greek, Latin…

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Christian DiCanio 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

This must fall apart in Oto-Manguean languages where bilabials are often restricted (there was no Proto-OM bilabial stop).

In Trique, for instance, 'mother' is /nni 3/ (but /nnãh 43/ for the vocative). 'Father' is /tʃe 3/, with no vocative/non-vocative distinction.

However, there may be some bias in different cultures for how much they wish to interpret infants' vocalizations. Some
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Joe Fineman 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Is it known what happened to the IE p@ter in Russian? Where did "otets" come from?

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Alon Lischinsky 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Guarani has sy (IPA [sɨ]) for mother, and túva (IPA ['tuʋa]) for father. Mapudungun has ñuke and chaw, respectively. I do not know whether there are any more intimate terms, but in any case I've never heard them. None of these seem too easy to master for the infant learner…

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dwmacg 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Tossing another language into the ring (and in honor of Larry Trask): In Basque the word for mother is "ama" and the word for father is "aita". Grandmother and grandfather are reduplicatives of those words: "amama" and "aitite".

With that, I've come close to exhausting my knowledge of Basque.

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Stephen Jones 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Sinhalese 'ama' for 'mama' and 'tata' for 'papa/daddy'.

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Randy Hudson 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Dinosaur Comics always have a hover-over text, which is worth quoting:

"Lots of languages have "ba" sounds for dads, too: "baba" in Persian, Swahili, Turkish and Bangla, Mandarin Chinese, "abba" in Aramaic and "ba" in !Kung. In other news, !Kung (the language AND people) is/are too awesome to just be mentioned in the title text here; their language uses
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Jo 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

@John Cowan: I really wouldn't say "babbo" is replacing anything in Italian; aside from "Babbo Natale" - Santa Claus - it's really only used in Tuscany and has been for a long time (like, say, in Canto XXXII of the Inferno). Everywhere else, kids say papà or papi.

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Graeme 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

While we're speculating our socks off, what do baby dinosaurs call their parents?

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Kellen Parker 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

A friend pointed out the other week that in Mandarin, all the titles of paternal extended family are repeated syllables while for the maternal extended family they're not, e.g. nainai vs waipo, yeye vs waigong. Himself a recent father had noticed his child had little trouble with repeating syllables but much more with things like "wai-po", and that it may be related to the fact that babies are often ... See all content

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vp 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

For what it's worth, the first consonant sound my baby made was a voiced velar fricative.

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Filius Lunae 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Being that Blogger doesn't support Trackbacks (sadly), I tried to use a third-party plug-in, but, alas, it didn't work. So I have to do a manual one.

Mamá, Papá "[…] In Spanish, the standard word for mother is madre (from Latin MATREM). Mamá would be the equivalent, in usage, to the English mom; and mami would then be mommy. Amá and ma are also heard, depending on region and sociolect
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Aviatrix 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

I'll repeat my advice to Ryan.

"Ma" or "mom" is the sound you make when you have your mouth full of milk and your lips wrapped around someone's engorged nipple. Try it sometime! Tell her it's a linguistics experiment!

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lhc 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

oh and the babyish word for breast is mimi

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lhc 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

btw, although in Chinese cities people now say "mama" and "baba" for mother and father, the older words "niang" and "die" are still in very wide use in the countryside, and at least some people seem to think that mama and baba are loan words from european languages ( see discussion on baidu knowledge web here:http://zhidao.baidu.com/question/28068627.html). Also, some mainlanders claim that the mama/baba ... See all content

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Mark F. 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

I don't think "parents' beliefs or infant abilities" is the right dichotomy. The limited speech abilities of infants is central to T-Rex's theory too. The question is what spin to put on parents' desire to hear the babies call them by name.

What struck me about the "where to mama and papa come from" paper was how rarely the two meanings are reversed. I wouldn't have expected that.

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mingfrommongo 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

My eldest's first sound was probably something like 'blauggh', but the wife and I still argue over whether it was 'ma' or 'pa'.

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TB 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Speaking of Japanese parent-words, I have always found it odd that the words for father (chichi) and breast/breastmilk (chichi) are homonyms in Japanese. Maybe T. Rex's theory has something to do with this as well.

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jl_baldridge 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

More tangental, anecdotal fun:

Prior to my birth, my parents were discussing what names I'd call them. They'd been thinking "Mama" and "Papa" or "Mommy" and "Daddy". But then one of my father's obnoxious friends inquired (and you must imagine this said in a most pronounced Boston accent) "What's the kid going to call you, Daaaaaddyyyyy?"

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montgomery 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

@ Craig Russell: In addition to the "mamma" word, it's pretty clear that "kakka" has a similar meaning across at least a few cultures as well.

FWIW, both "mama" and "kaka" refer to types of uncles in Nepali (mama on the mother's side, kaka on the father's). Mother is "aama", like in Hindi.

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Dan Milton 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Another paper on the subject:

Kin Tongue

A Study of Kin Nursery Terms in Relation to Language Acquisition

With a Historical and Evolutionary Perspective

by Pierre J. Bancel * and Alain Matthey de l’Etang

http://www.nostratic.ru/books/(312)Papa-2ndPaper-2004.pdf

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Acilius 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

@JWB: I don't think that Jakobson and Trask presuppose that no one speaks to babies or that babies listen to no one. On the contrary, they assume that babies do hear the languages that the people around them speak. That assumption raises a question. Languages differ considerably in the sounds they use; yet babies the world over babble using the same few sounds. Jakobson and Trask contradict those who ... See all content

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Nathan Myers 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Craig: Hence "cacophony", right?

Indonesian has "susu" for both breast and milk.

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J. W. Brewer 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

As in the Bangs household (but without any Romanian speakers present), my older daughter could say "dada" several months before she could say "mama," much to her mother's chagrin. For a brief period she actually seemed to have two distinguishable variants of "dada" (which I unfortunately failed to write down in IPA notation at the time), one of which was used only to refer to me and the other of which ... See all content

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Pavel 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Philip Spaelti said,

Incidentally a sound of the "ti/di/(ki)" variety is usually not far behind. And thus many languages also have (baby) words of the titi varitey meaning either "father", or "breast/milk", etc. So: English "Mommy/Daddy". In (Old) Japanese "papa" was mother and "titi" was both father and breast, breastmilk.

I'd never heard this before, but amazingly, in Malay, 'breast'
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James C. 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Some languages violate Jakobson’s Matronymic Generalization. Tlingit has in its poorly documented baby-talk vocabulary the form atlei (IPA /ʔatɬʰeː/) or atlee (IPA /ʔatɬʰiː/) for “mama”, which is derived from axh tlaa (IPA /ʔaχ tɬʰaː/) “my mother”. (I have no explanation for why the vowel changes.) Almost all Tlingit dialects lack labials, so *mama, *baba, *papa, and the like are impossible.

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Craig Russell 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

For what it's worth, Ancient Greek also has both "mamme" and "mamma" as baby words either specifically meaning "mother" or used by infants crying to be fed.

The comic playwright Aristophanes has a scene from his play "Clouds" (famous for including a parody of the philosopher Socrates written during his lifetime) in which a father Strepsiades is chewing out his son Phidippides for thinking
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Philip Spaelti 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Just perhaps to clarify about formality. The words "haha" (mother) and "chichi" (father) are formal words in Japanese. But they are 'bare' with respect to politeness, so they cannot be used to address one's own mother/father or those of the person one is talking to. They can only be used in abstract discourse about mothers/fathers in general, or to talk about one's own mother/father. It is probably ... See all content

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Philip Spaelti 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

@Zubon: "Okaasan," yes, but "haha" is the less formal version, and babies rarely stand for formality.

"Haha" is not the less formal version. In fact it is the more formal version. "Haha" is the way one talks about mothers, while "Okaasan" is the (recent traditional) form of address. [An older (formal) address form was "haha-ue", which is still heard in period-piece movies ("jidaigeki").] Of
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alex boulton 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Gosh, this one got people going. On the ego front, I think we're probably mishearing mama & papa; a more likely explanation is that babies are saying "me me" all the time; except when it's "poo poo".

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Zubon 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Did I learn an odd version of Japanese that I immediately thought of "haha" for "mother"? "Okaasan," yes, but "haha" is the less formal version, and babies rarely stand for formality. I don't know the proper linguistic term for how "ha" and "pa" are related in Japanese: the character is just the same, but ha° is pa (and ha" is ba). So "haha" is a version of "papa/baba," another win for T-Rex. See page ... See all content

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Andrew Clegg 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

@hsgudnason

No-one's being touchy! This is just the sort of well-considered and genial linguistic debate that a good comic strip is likely to inspire on Language Log. Are you a troll?

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Faldone 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

The perpetual rediscovery is in the University of Sussex article that Acilius and I almost simultaneously linked to

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Andrew 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

One thing that strikes me is that most of the languages mentioned in the strip are related, even if rather remotely - the only exceptions I can see are 'Chinese', Quechua and Cree. So it isn't so surprising that the word for 'mother' in those languages is similar.

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Philip Spaelti 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

And finally we shouldn't forget Latin "mamma" which means breast(milk) and gives us the word mammal. So all languages perpetually rediscover these baby words, give them the same meanings, and incorporate them into the language as "real" words.

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Peter M Reed 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

This is a link to a paper by Larry Trask (aimed at 1st year BA Linguistics students) [PDF], in which he discusses possible reasons for the crosslinguistic similarities in mama/papa words. There are also lots of data from different areal and genetic language groups. The paper references two Roman Jakobson papers (one is available on Google Books here).

I hope these references are useful. FWIW
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Skullturf Q. Beavispants 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

I've sometimes seen baby talk represented in print as "goo goo ga ga". Is G typically one of the first consonants learned? (I also have a vague memory of reading that that consonant appears in most world languages but can no longer remember the source.)

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Acilius 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

I'm sure you'll remember Roman Jakobson, as expounded by Larry Trask:

http://www.sussex.ac.uk/linguistics/documents/where_do_mama2.pdf

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Faldone 3 months, 1 week ago on Wordpress

Here's an anonymous pdf from the University of Sussex Linguistic Department.

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