By: Charlie

Updated 2 months, 2 weeks ago

Source: http://www.productiveflourishing.com/

@Bud:

Going slow is essential for going fast

Dead on! It’s too easy for people to get caught up in trying to be efficient (fast) without realizing that efficiency should rest upon effectiveness (slow).

Also, thanks for reminding me about Jonathan’s post. In case anyone else is curious, it’s The Number One Self Development Mistake and The Fake Growth Addict.

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iteles 2 months, 2 weeks ago on Twitter

Have 'discovered' @CharlieGilkey's blog & reading back: this post could help many a relationship! http://tinyurl.com/ycgsys6

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Ines Teles 2 months, 2 weeks ago on Twitter

Have 'discovered' @CharliGilkey's blog & reading back: this post could help many a relationship! http://tinyurl.com/ycgsys6

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MsManagr 2 months, 2 weeks ago on Twitter

We’re All Turtles Sometimes http://bit.ly/5NVWwX

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Karl Staib - Work Happy Now 2 months, 3 weeks ago on Wordpress

I procrastinate. I avoid doing the work that is most important. I’ll read a book, watch TV, or go for a walk. I know what I need to be doing, but I can’t wrap my mind around it.

During this time (usually a walk) I self talk and try to get myself in the right state of mind. This may take 30 minutes or 2 hours, but eventually I crawl out of my shell even stronger.

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Charlie 2 months, 3 weeks ago on Wordpress

Thanks, Steven! Welcome to the conversation.

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Charlie 2 months, 3 weeks ago on Wordpress

You’re welcome – it’s a fine balance, really, and something you have to be pretty intuitive about, especially in working through turtling with others.

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Charlie 2 months, 3 weeks ago on Wordpress

Precisely. As an aside, this is why I read multiple books in pushes – I’ll read a book and let it sit for a couple of days while I’m doing the same with other books. This route makes it harder to get the “YAY!” feeling from finishing a book, but it turns into a much better reading process.

Thanks for letting us know about Post-Practice Improvement!

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Steven Handel 2 months, 4 weeks ago on Wordpress

Interesting concept and nice blog! I look forward to reading more from you in the future.

Steven Handel´s last blog ..How Stress Ruins Everything And What You Can Do About It

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Muge Cerman 3 months ago on Friendfeed

We're All Turtles Sometimes - http://www.productiveflourishing.com/were-al...

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Muge Cerman 3 months ago on Friendfeed

"A friend got me thinking about the term “turtling” that I sometimes use to describe the process that people go through to hide out and feel secure. We all turtle up in different ways, and one of the challenges of being a coach is to figure out when the turtling is instrumental and when it’s detrimental."

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Janet Bailey 3 months ago on Wordpress

I lean toward turtling as instrumental, mainly because the culture comes down so strongly on the forced-growth, play-bigger side. Yet your post is causing me to ask myself to what extent that’s a reactive position. I see the opportunity for greater flexibility in moving between the two poles of instrumental-detrimental turtling — both in my coaching and in moving my own projects forward ... See all content

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Vlad Dolezal 3 months ago on Wordpress

Ever heard of Post-Practice Improvement? It’s a process in your brain, leveraged by professional pianists and other master learners.

You know how in bodybuilding your muscles don’t grow during the workout, they grow in between workouts? Well, the same happens with skills in your brain. You need your “downtime” to grow skills properly. (It takes a while for the neurons
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thetinysoprano 3 months ago on Twitter

Read this short & sweet post from @CharlieGilkey "We're All Turtles Sometimes" http://bit.ly/18o1wn

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This post was mentioned on Twitter by CharlieGilkey: Today’s short post: “We’re All Turtles Sometimes” http://bit.ly/1zqT5g And you know what? It’s okay….

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Charlie 3 months ago on Wordpress

@Bud:

Going slow is essential for going fast

Dead on! It’s too easy for people to get caught up in trying to be efficient (fast) without realizing that efficiency should rest upon effectiveness (slow).

Also, thanks for reminding me about Jonathan’s post. In case anyone else is curious, it’s The Number One Self Development Mistake and The Fake Growth Addict
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Bud Hennekes 3 months ago on Wordpress

This resonates a lot with Johnathan Mead’s latest post. Part of “growing” is taking time to just be. So often we get caught up in always doing something, when the most effective thing to do is just take sometime off and process what it is that we have learned.

The turtle truth is we can’t always be going at full speed. As much as we may think we can this only burns
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kgs03 3 months ago on Twitter

We’re All Turtles Sometimes http://ff.im/-b6jO9

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CharlieGilkey 3 months ago on Twitter

Today's short post: "We're All Turtles Sometimes" http://bit.ly/1zqT5g And you know what? It's okay.

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SuzanneBHarris 3 months ago on Twitter

Reading: We’re All Turtles Sometimes http://bit.ly/4zqchw

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